Just the thought of birthday party planning can send many parents into a spin. Organising a 4 to 7 year old’s party is very simple if you understand the needs and dynamics of those who will attend. Rushing off to the park to save your house from the juvenile demolition team is a knee jerk response that often brings more problems than it provides solutions.
Who wants what at the party?
There are 4 main stakeholders at a children’s birthday party: the birthday child, the birthday child’s parents, the invited children, and their parents. Here’s what they want:
The birthday child wants to be king or queen for the day and get presents, lots of presents.
The hosting parents want no stress and no mess.
The visiting children want to be entertained and active. They are not interested in food.
Their parents want to be able to drop and run or for it to all end as quickly as possible. Read the rest of this entry »